It is with a very heavy heart that we tell you all that our beloved Katie Kramer is no longer with us. She passed away very calmly and peacefully last evening, Sunday, July 13th, 2014 at 7:48 pm. She had been at Beaumont Royal Oak, Michigan, on the hospice floor since Monday, per her request, and many friends and family were with her for her final week. Previously she was in home hospice for a couple months as her symptoms got gradually worse, but with the help of family and friends she was able to be comfortable in her own home until her symptoms got noticeably worse last weekend.

Katie Kramer
In the last year or so, her breast cancer had spread to her right femur and more recently two vertebrae, which she got treatment for, but other symptoms came along, and some of her pain persisted requiring added pain medications to keep her comfortable. This limited her ability to get out and see you all, but she was always glad to know how you were all doing.
Our sincere thanks to the many who have shared the condolences and memories about Katie, and if you would like to share anything please feel free to do so on the pages linked below.
Information on charitable contributions:
The Jewish Hospice & Chaplaincy Network
6555 W. Maple Road
West Bloomfield, MI 48322
248-592-2687
or to a charity of one’s choice
Obituary
Dr. Kathryn (Katie) Haylee Kramer, age 44, of Huntington Woods, Michigan passed away on July 13th, 2014. Devoted mother of Nate Becker, beloved daughter of Tammy and Charlie (deceased), loving sister of Jordan (Mary) Kramer and David Kramer, proud aunt to Quinn, Harper and Caleb. Katie was surrounded by an army of devoted friends and her dear friend Ashby Woolf who adored her. Katie struggled with breast cancer for three years, while living beautifully and courageously until the end.
Although she enjoyed living in Chicago and Chattanooga, Katie returned to the place she loved most- Huntington Woods- to settle and raise her child. Her sensitive heart, determined spirit, and intuitive mind combined to guide Katie on a path of academic and professional achievements. For the greater part of her professional life she devoted herself to providing education, counseling and advocacy for Autistic children and their families. She earned her Bachelor of Arts from University of Wisconsin-Madison, and went on to earn a Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology from The Center for Humanistic Studies, Detroit, MI and a Doctorate from the Michigan School of Professional Psychology, Farmington Hills, MI.
Katie’s pride and joy was her son, Nate. Despite the challenging circumstances of the last few years of her life, Kate’s priority always centered around her son, Nate. Their relationship was characterized by the qualities that made Katie special–love, happiness, caring, intimacy, fun, learning, creativity and play. With the support of her loving family, amazing friends and compassionate caregivers, Katie always provided a warm and beautiful home to share and enjoy with Nate.
Katie touched the lives of so many people in a profound way. And she will be dearly missed by all.
Please come back often to share your memories whenever you think of Katie on this page:
The Dorfman Chapel recorded both audio and video format of the ceremony from July 15th. Katie planned an uplifting service complete with a Gospel choir from the prestigious Hartford Memorial Baptist Church…
Audio of ceremony (1 hr 5 min):
Video of ceremony (1 hr 5 min):
Please see these blog posts and comments:
An important message from Katie:
Love or Fear (by Katie, March 4th, 2013)
- Happy 14th Birthday Nate!!! (Apr 15, 2023)
- July 13, 2022 – Yahrzeit for Katie (July 13, 2022)
- A Happy 13th Birthday to Nate!! (Apr 15, 2022)
- Yahrzeit for Katie (Jul 12, 2021)
- Yahrzeit approaching – Candles and tributes Mon and Tues (Jul 11, 2021)
- Happy Birthday Katie – Orchid Reminders (Jun 30, 2021)
- Happy 12th Birthday Nate!!! (Apr 15, 2021)
- Yahrzeit for Katie (Jul 12, 2020)
- Katie’s Birthday today (Jun 30, 2020)
- Happy 11th Birthday Nate!!! (Apr 15, 2020)
- Doctoral Dissertation 2009 – Kathryn (Katie) Kramer, Psy.D. (Jan 2, 2020)
- Humor and Love Through Adversity – #WonderWoman (Nov 1, 2019)
- Katie Kits Delivered to Gilda’s Club (Jul 23, 2019)
- Never an easy day, but a wild coincidence happened… (Jul 14, 2019)
- Remembrance approaching… (Jul 10, 2019)
- Happy Birthday Katie! (Jun 30, 2019)
- Bike Thank You for All… Some Music! AND Katie Kits to Gilda’s Club! (Jun 3, 2019)
- Happy Mother’s Day!! (May 12, 2019)
- Happy 10th Birthday to Nate! (Apr 15, 2019)
- Breast Cancer Resources and MBC / Stage 4 (Oct 23, 2018)
- Raffle Drawing this Weekend for Katie Kit Sponsors (Oct 17, 2018)
- Day 1 Done – 48 miles – Raffle soon of honey and treat bag! (Sep 29, 2018)
- Fundraising Bike Ride In 33 Days… (Aug 27, 2018)
- 4 Years Later – Katie’s Love Persists (Jul 13, 2018)
- Happy Birthday Dear Katie (Jun 30, 2018)
- Happy 9th Birthday to Nate (Apr 15, 2018)
- 21 Katie Kits Delivered – Lavanila and Beautiful LED Candles Included (Mar 22, 2018)
- Next Batch of Katie Kits is being ordered… with New Totes! (Jan 19, 2018)
- 2nd Bike Ride Done, 172 Miles, $1467 Raised for Katie Kits (Sep 29, 2017)
- Raffle Drawing Tomorrow (Sep 19, 2017)
- Bonfire Peace (Aug 25, 2017)
- 180 Mile Weekend, Raffle Tomorrow, $1045 Raised So Far (Jul 18, 2017)
- 3 Years – Katie Is In Our Hearts (Jul 13, 2017)
- Yahrzeit 2017 – 3 years tomorrow (Jul 12, 2017)
- Happy Birthday Katie (and Katie Kits) (Jul 2, 2017)
- Fundraising for more Katie Kits – Biking 300 miles in 4 days! (May 23, 2017)
- Happy Mother’s Day 2017 (May 14, 2017)
- Happy Birthday to Nate Who is 8 Today (Apr 15, 2017)
- Remembering Chuck, 4 Years (Feb 21st, 2017)
- Remembering Chuck Tomorrow, Join Us (Feb 20, 2017)
- Happy Valentine’s Day (Feb 14, 2017)
- Another Katie Kit Recipient (Dec 21, 2016)
- October Bonfire, and one grateful guy (Oct 8, 2016)
- Sept 2016 Impromptu Bonfire Love (Sep 5, 2016)
- 17 More Katie Kits Delivered (Aug 10th, 2016)
- 2 Years Later – Remembering Katie (Jul 13th, 2016)
- Yahrzeit 2016 – 2 Years on Wednesday (Jul 11th, 2016)
- Happy Birthday Katie – Beach Party In Your Honor (Jun 30th, 2016)
- March Bonfire Love, More Katie Kits and New Design (Mar 26th, 2016)
- 20 Months, Fire and New Blooms (Mar 13th, 2016)
- Remembering Chuck Today – 3 Years (Feb 21, 2016)
- Celebrating Tammy’s Birthday (Jan 24, 2015)
- More Katie Kit News and Happy Holidays (Dec 21, 2015)
- Katie Kits Helping Patients (Dec 4th, 2015)
- Bonfire for You Tonight (Oct 23rd, 2015)
- Katie Kits being used, 143 Miles & $1200, and a Fall Bonfire (Oct 6th, 2015)
- Riding 150 Miles To Raise Money For More Katie Kits (Sept 25th, 2015)
- 14 Months and Happy Rosh Hashanah (Sep 13th, 2015)
- Project Give-Back Goes Live – Katie Kits Delivered (Aug 20th, 2015)
- 30 Katie Kits Ready For Delivery (Aug 15th, 2015)
- We Swam Wing Lake In Honor Of Katie! (July 20th, 2015)
- Join Us In Honoring Katie Today (July 13th, 2015)
- Yahrtzeit is this Monday (July 7th, 2015)
- Honoring Katie’s Birthday Today (June 30th, 2015)
- 11 Months: Orchids, a Bonfire and Katie’s Wise Words (June 13th, 2015)
- Happy Mother’s Day 2015 – Here’s to Katie! (May 10th, 2015)
- April Bonfire Warmth (Apr 26th, 2015)
- Nate is 6!! And a message from Katie!! (Apr 17th, 2015)
- Feeling Love After 8 Months (Mar 13th, 2015)
- Seven Months and a Bonfire (Mar 1st, 2015)
- Missing Chuck – Two years out (Feb 22nd, 2015)
- Happy Birthday Tammy!!!! (Jan 24th, 2015)
- Goodbye Bonfire to Katie’s House (Jan 15th, 2015)
- Happy New Year – Music for You (Jan 5th, 2015)
- Happy Hanukkah (Dec 16th, 2014)
- December Bonfire Burning Strong (Dec 14th, 2014)
- Thanksgiving: Reflection and Warm Gratitude to You (Nov 28th, 2014)
- What do you remember most about Katie? (Nov 19th, 2014)
- Four Months and Remembering Katie (Nov 10th, 2014)
- October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month (Oct 1st, 2014)
- Two Months and Still Feeling Lost (Sept 14th, 2014)
- Tributes to Katie and Nate (Aug 5th, 2014)
- Celebrating Life and Milestones (July 25th, 2014)
- Another Bonfire Tribute Tonight (July 20th, 2014)
- Holding You In Our Hearts (July 18th, 2014)
- A Sad Loss, Katie has Peacefully Passed (July 14th, 2014)
Photos and videos are here:
More about Katie and Nate:
- About Katie
- Dr. Kathryn Kramer
- NATE! – Her true love.
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